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My opinion about love and relationships
Topic Started: Feb 16 2012, 03:56 PM (1,055 Views)
SirParagon
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That diagram seems very vague, isn't each corner supposed to be a result of another?

Intimacy can result from passion, commitment or both.
Passion can result from intimacy, commitment or both.
Commitment can result from intimacy, passion or both.

A stable relationship requires all three with one factor being the kick-start. I presume most relationships start on the basis of passion, even though it would probably be more favorable to start at intimacy.

That is how I interpret things. I'm also guessing the distinction between intimacy and passion here is friendship vs. lust.
Edited by SirParagon, Feb 21 2012, 04:49 AM.
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Krystal
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That's a great of looking at it. I always thought that the relationships were the results of two points put together, showing what results from a lack of even one of the basic elements. Now I could be completely wrong and you could be right, or maybe it's a combination of both of our thoughts...the elements are crucial to a healthy relationship, but only through having some already there in the first place can you build a more developed love...
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To be honest I don't think relationships are something to strive for. If it happens then it does, if it doesn't then it doesn't.
Tha gaol agam ort. <3
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POOHEAD189
Feb 26 2012, 03:39 PM
To be honest I don't think relationships are something to strive for. If it happens then it does, if it doesn't then it doesn't.
But at some point, everyone craves a relationship and someone to care for on a deeper level.
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POOHEAD189
Feb 26 2012, 03:39 PM
To be honest I don't think relationships are something to strive for. If it happens then it does, if it doesn't then it doesn't.
I agree. Not everybody needs somebody else, at least for me and from my personal experiences. Sometimes you really are better off alone, either by choice or because no one is truly compatible with you.

Craving to care for someone could easily be craving to dump your successes onto someone else and hope they idolize you.
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Feb 26 2012, 05:55 PM
POOHEAD189
Feb 26 2012, 03:39 PM
To be honest I don't think relationships are something to strive for. If it happens then it does, if it doesn't then it doesn't.
But at some point, everyone craves a relationship and someone to care for on a deeper level.
Oh, believe me I know. Even before I fell in love with a girl, I always had the problem of too much love in my heart and no outlet to put it. But I dislike it when people actively search. I think it shows that they can't be independent minded. That or they can't control their urges.
If you're looking for someone to care for on a deeper level, I'm all for it, and I understand. But if its your main goal every second, I think you need more hobbies.
Edited by POOHEAD189, Feb 26 2012, 07:16 PM.
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I don't really care for love. I'm more into the passion or heat of it all. The everyday things and the dates I could care less about.
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